It’s worth studying because romantic love is needed in the obvious ways that keep our divided society together.

Around 70% of parents and children in Japan do not have visitation after divorce. Of the approximately 30% who do have visitation, the most frequent type of visitation is day visits of a few hours once a month.

When a male is in a power imbalance, at least two masculine instincts are disempowered…

…are men being discouraged from showing sensitivity and awareness about their experiences because it implies insensitivity and a lack of awareness towards women?

…many professionals seem to interpret the evidence “most convicted child sex offenders are men”, as “children are more at risk from their father than their mother.

Parental alienation is subtle. It leaves no visible scars. The victim may see the perpetrator as their rescuer. A loving parent can be seen as the villain. There will be no cry for help

Mother ‘explained’ to me that we had to leave our father for our own protection. Father, I was told, was a very dangerous man.

Although a ‘survivor’ of domestic abuse… I was never going to give my career up to make me financially eligible for legal aid.

More than at any time in history, we need now to grant each other this gift of mutual care. That is because the love of women no longer saves men from the battles they face, and the love of men no longer saves women from wolves that prey on their peace of mind.

The male has been designed to “look”, not only at the female, but to “look out” for prey, for danger, and for ways to protect his family unit.